Miss Sensuale

Hello Me, Be My Valentine?

  Around Valentines Day I wonder about the millions of single people this holiday so obviously ignores, and how it may do the very opposite of what it was meant to be. It’s very easy for me to relate. Just a couple years ago,  I was walking through a greeting card store and a slight wave of envy hit me as I watched women picking out cards in the “Romantic for Him” aisle. The year was slim pickins for me in the romance department. Valentines’ Day just made it feel worse. Any of you experiencing the joys and never-ending wonders of the online dating merry-go-round can...

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So What is Premature Ejaculation Anyhow?

Thirty years ago I defined premature ejaculation as my mate’s struggle to get past 3 or 4 strokes during intercourse!  But nowadays, with a step up in discussion between lovers, plus the wide array of information sources, the topic isn’t so hush-hush anymore.  I think where the ‘real’ problem with what any one person defines as ‘premature ejaculation’ lies in the assumption that ‘its over’  You know—the sex stops, no more action, partner lays there in wonder because “I can’t ‘perform’ anymore”. And there...

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Holiday Travel Tips With Your Sex Toys

Are you traveling for the holiday? Are your sex toys traveling with you? Here is some tried and true advice whether you’re packing for the security check at the airport or bunking in the spare room at your in-law’s house. Tips for  Airport and Flying: 1. Take the batteries out of your sex toys, including the ones in your checked bags. The last thing you want is for your toy to starting vibrating, especially in the security screening line. This just takes a moment before you pack them, do it! 2. Your favorite personal lubricant is probably in a 4 oz bottle/tube. Carry-on...

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My Nose Is In Love

The Place:  Playa del Carmen, MexicoWhen: July, the sun just starting to set, and it was still 90 degrees.  Now The Story: I was taking a stroll, shopping for souvenirs, there were hundreds of vendors and little interesting shops, a tourist’s paradise really! But it so so hot, and I was starting to perspire heavily, and practically every shop did had no air conditioning. Alas, there was one safe haven: “La Perfumeria.” And there my friends, is where my rather Roman nose came alive.You see, I’ve worn Eternity by Calving Klein for so long, I can’t even remember wearing...

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Dirty Talk: Count Me In!

The only time I’ve ever heard people complain about the sounds their lover makes during sex is when they don’t make any at all. I think the only thing worse is making love in complete darkness! Recently, a close friend revealed privately to me the reason she divorced: her husband was so inhibited and withdrawn, he even orgasmed silently. She never got any ‘feedback’ during sex that gave her a clue if what she was doing was feeling good or ‘on target’. That must be so frustrating! Sounds during sex isn’t just about words. Grunts, moans, groans,...

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Birthday Sex

Oh, how I am longing for Birthday Sex!   …you know, the kind where your lover gives you especially what you like, without any restraints on time. You can even be a little selfish and luxuriate in the pleasure.  They know it’s your special day, so attention to all the little details like music, flowers, oils, clean sheets, long, loooooong kisses, caresses, and the touch that says: “Don’t worry baby, I love what I am doing and will do it for as long as you want or like it”… Sigh. I so love that. You know what? I could very well long...

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